Urbanity /(?)/

Ur·ban·i·ty

Urbanity

n.
  1. The quality or state of being urbane; civility or courtesy of manners; politeness; refinement.
    The marquis did the honors of his house with the urbanity of his country.
  2. Polite wit; facetiousness. [Obs.]
    Raillery in the sauce of civil entertainment; and without some such tincture of urbanity, good humor falters.